Stop Carrying the Weight of Insecure People

Stop Carrying the Weight of Insecure People

Blame yourself only for the things you truly have control over. Do not take on the responsibility for other people’s insecurities. They are the problem, and deep down, they know it. You did nothing wrong. It is not your fault if you are confident and they are not. If they choose to stay average, it is their choice. Your role is to level up and leave them behind.

Amel, you have a beautiful mindset and there is no doubt you will go far in life. You have spoken to them, and you now see clearly how average, insecure, and small-minded they are. They do not think outside the box. The only thing they care about is getting good grades, landing a big company name on their CV, and showing it off on LinkedIn. They lack ambition, curiosity, and vision. Instead, they feed jealousy, envy, and criticism.

They attacked you in an attempt to look smarter, but you do not need to defend yourself with words. Let them think what they want. Prove them wrong with action. Remember, if you keep engaging with people like this, you will limit yourself. They were the obstacle stopping you from seeing how amazing you truly are and the potential you hold.

You have so much more to give. Do not waste your energy and positivity on those who do not value it. Keep your focus. Let them stay in their small zone, while you build, grow, and reach higher. And when they finally notice what you have achieved, they will realize they could have learned a lot from you — but by then, you will already be too far ahead.